so thats easy then, it gets more difficult to look for the what. I guess it depends on the scenario and what is going on, and indeed then what is the outcome!
And of course, that’s where I’ve come unstuck, I am usual ok at identifying an issue and then determining an plan of action as to what, when, where, who etc…. but I just can’t put a finger on it, or perhaps its locked away in a cupboard called denial. I’ve seen lots of old habits return and that’s disappointing if i am honest, and may be that’s what slowing me down.
Some more time, and idle thought is needed, as one thing I know is that I cant force it.